marriage

[bienna]

I am married but 5 years separated with my husband just now I found a friend and eventually became my boyfriend he is a widowed.only in the net.
we both have kid were planning we are so much in love and were planing to live together the problem is how can I go to Uk when Im married here in the Philippines,I don't want him to come here to avoid any conflict with my former husband who's now still single and want to take me back.I do not love him any more I know and I feel it in my heart, I have to move on to get rid of him.Please help.

[Alona]

first you need to sort out things between you and your ex-husband in the philippines.talking about annulment thats it,but in our country it takes year to get annuled and takes a lot of money to hire a lawyer i think.the question is,is your husband willing to have an annulment,if not that is very complicated and risky.

I am married but 5 years separated with my husband just now I found a friend and eventually became my boyfriend he is a widowed.only in the net.
we both have kid were planning we are so much in love and were planing to live together the problem is how can I go to Uk when Im married here in the Philippines,I don't want him to come here to avoid any conflict with my former husband who's now still single and want to take me back.I do not love him any more I know and I feel it in my heart, I have to move on to get rid of him.Please help.

[simon_87]

hello again everyone thanks for the advice so far however im still a little confused here, so let me ask some more questions, so firstly I will need to travel to the Philippines in order to obtain proof we have met and then secondly my girlfriend will need to apply for a fiance visa??? after we have met , is this correct???
also could anyone be a more detailed about the process i will need to follow please,

I have one more thing to add my girlfriend is only 20 and i read somewhere we both need to be over 21 this isnt a problem for me but does this mean we cant get married until she is 21???

ps to grahamw48, yes she does live in the Philippines and she doesn't have any children

thanks again everyone, take care