i dont mind the cost it will be worth it.ok im just going to visit her again in 3 weeks time.i wont try a visit visa.i will however use all the advice off this forum to collect stubs,reciepts,pics etc.to build a portfolio up and try for fiance visa in a few months.i now know how to save chat logs and call logs so i can now print them off and i have my phone bills showing i have txt her everyday since ive been back and phoned at least once a week.ive also told my gf to save her load cards.i just need to be patient.thankyou