thanx.we will be back together for a couple of weeks soon i cant wait.im just so glad i found this site or i would have gone blind and come back very disappointed.you ppl are a mountain of knowledge im still learning more & more every minute.just 1 more thing if you dont mind.ive tried searching but i cant find anything on age difference.do you know if the embassy look down on it.im 31 and my gf is 22