can anybody help me with advise please

[scotsfiancee]

oh dear.my heads in the shed.my gf has just rang me to say she isnt really 22but 18 and i think she has tried to get her passport with somebody elses id(dont know how u can try that but i couldnt understand her coz she was crying so much)i hope not anyway.im supposed to be going to see her in 2 weeks but i dont know what to do now.she was in tears and says she loves me and wants to be with me here in england but that now makes us 13yrs apart in age.i love her so much im devastated i presume she has to be 21 to come with me anyway.well im gonna close shop and go buy some vodka get drunk and .sorry i just wanted to share that with someone

Why she never tell you bout her real age?? what's her reason????
Where she from again?

One of the member here has a filipino gf and she's 18 too and the guy is same age as you! And they are going to apply fiancee visa in autum this year!

Just go and see her, see how it works for u both

[poss30]

andypaul im trying its just many things going on in my head.are filipino women more mature than our british counterparts.its the teen thing that hits me.am i a teenage crush.obviously i need to talk to her.i cant get any sense out of her now.shes gonna come on yahoo tomorrow.

[baboyako]

vodka is good for you, it low ph

seriously just relax - it will work out ok

[poss30]

scotsfiancee i can only think that it was a comment i made to her,that she looks to young for an old git like me,which i said as a joke.she lives in taytay rizal.we met in robinsons supermarket near the la corona hotel where i was staying.we met we clicked and she came to subic with me for 3 weeks where i had the time of my life to be honest.i came out of a long term relationship a year ago where my ex had been sleeping with someone behind my back for 3 months.i have 2 young kids to this horrible women and all the lies i got off her makes me hate lying now.im probably letting this get to me to much now.im going to grill her tomorrow coz i dont like ppl not being straight with me

[poss30]

thanx peeps.i might try a bit of tampo tomorrow.hows it go again total silence

[andypaul]

thanx peeps.i might try a bit of tampo tomorrow.hows it go again total silence

Tampo on yahoo kind of defeats the object.

relax tonight and talk to her she may have made s ailly mistake but who doesnt. phill women like to please those they love (from what i know) and are more selfless then the avg brit.
my wife didnt want to say she had a brother or sister at first in case it upset me not sure how it would but there you go. Phill ladies tend to not want to upset their mahal. I dont know why im no expert im afraid.