What will you feel if your gf/bf is still attach to her//his past??

[sexiimulditah]

awwwwww...my minds swinging my husband is divorced ,him and his ex wife has a beautiful 9 year old daughter,too young to understand their situations..and i am such a good girl letting and telling my husband and his ex wife go out sometimes togethere with their daughter just like normal family bonding every little ones dreamed ofi am not jealous at all,i understand everything about it,and i also trusts my husband,,in your case maybe u just need to secure him with your love if u really love him and yep past is past,be open minded in every things and try to understand every possible ideas..life is not that easy but it doesnt mean u make it more harder for u both..


hehe just my opinion..goodluck

[stevewool]

[QUOTE=sexiimulditah;294255]awwwwww...my minds swinging my husband is divorced ,him and his ex wife has a beautiful 9 year old daughter,too young to understand their situations..and i am such a good girl letting and telling my husband and his ex wife go out sometimes togethere with their daughter just like normal family bonding every little ones dreamed ofi am not jealous at all,i understand everything about it,and i also trusts my husband,

wow be carefull here i have never heard anything like this before at all, if the shoe was on the other foot would your partner be happy, i dont think so, and any nine year old does understand or is it a case of trying to get mummy and daddy back together again, i would stop this straight away you are your husbands wife and if the child needs to go out then you all go out as a family, just like the ex would with her new partner as a family,

[Terpe]

[QUOTE=stevewool;294309]

awwwwww...my minds swinging my husband is divorced ,him and his ex wife has a beautiful 9 year old daughter,too young to understand their situations..and i am such a good girl letting and telling my husband and his ex wife go out sometimes togethere with their daughter just like normal family bonding every little ones dreamed ofi am not jealous at all,i understand everything about it,and i also trusts my husband,

wow be carefull here i have never heard anything like this before at all, if the shoe was on the other foot would your partner be happy, i dont think so, and any nine year old does understand or is it a case of trying to get mummy and daddy back together again, i would stop this straight away you are your husbands wife and if the child needs to go out then you all go out as a family, just like the ex would with her new partner as a family,

That's the way I see it too. Wise words.
It's my first time to hear that.

[tone]

Steve - I occasionally go out with my 14 year old and my ex-wife actually and my relationship was as strong as ever with my partner so I do believe its all possible as long as you remember what you have and are a person with scruples.
With regards to the OP and their issue I would be very careful being with someone who drinks - and we have all seen the effects of this I guess either through personal or family/friends..bad place to be IMHO.

Tone

[kate_th]

its like an accessory...weeeeeeeeeeee......