pregnant filipina

[bornatbirth]

she told him she hates her job, and i suspect that is her basis for being in the UK, hence my question is, if she IS pregnant, will having the baby get her status in the UK without having to do the job she really hates?

thats depends if shes is on a visa, even if she is then she may need to leave the uk after the visa runs out and take the baby with her. Visas havent been given out for domestic wokers for a long time.

until you find out her status this topic is left hanging in the air?

[grahamw48]

i don't know her status, but she is a domestic worker, and i think there is a special visa for that? but i really don't know.

we don't know if she IS pregnant or not, it's still early days, but he has tried to talk to her and she will not return his calls. of course, if she is trying to get a baby on purpose, she is unlikely to admit this now isn't she? he is completely screwed.

i do realise i need to dump him, but right now i stupidly still care. i am so desperate i am trying to get answers from an internet forum!

she told him she hates her job, and i suspect that is her basis for being in the UK, hence my question is, if she IS pregnant, will having the baby get her status in the UK without having to do the job she really hates?

Stay with us. You've probably come to the best place for advice.

[Tawi2]

The truth will out
Making light of the situation give your boyfriend this e-mail addie,its the lady who does DNA tests on the Jeremy Kyle showtracey.moore@granadamedia.com
To be more serious he cant turn his back on a child he has actively participated in making,if he does he is a grade-A sal-sal'er She didnt do this to trap him,and the show wasnt one-sided neither,he takes 50% responsibility,Pinas isnt a place social welfare so hope the CSA makes him pay for his dalliance,he has at least 18 years to ponder on his stupidity.

[scared]

The truth will out
Making light of the situation give your boyfriend this e-mail addie,its the lady who does DNA tests on the Jeremy Kyle showtracey.moore@granadamedia.com
To be more serious he cant turn his back on a child he has actively participated in making,if he does he is a grade-A sal-sal'er She didnt do this to trap him,and the show wasnt one-sided neither,he takes 50% responsibility,Pinas isnt a place social welfare so hope the CSA makes him pay for his dalliance,he has at least 18 years to ponder on his stupidity.

i know, i know. and as i am stupidly in love with the boy, maybe I have to pay for 18years also. i am not trying to blame the girl, i know he is responsible, i am just (desperately, pathetically) trying to find out how likely this scenario is.....

[Steve.r]

Oh nooooo ...... I have been trapped by my pregnant filipina too, save me Oh.. hang on , maybe I trapped her

[Tawi2]

he is completely screwed.

I think you will find its HER who was completely...........

[mhaedonald]

hi Scared im a filipina too... well i might say that filipina are just like women from other country,we have different cultures and values,,there are modern and old fashioned and there are different character traits and different morals same as in any other country, extremely difficult to generalise- same as women here in the uk... It sometimes based on how they were raised. I know alot of filipina women who making themself pregnant for the man to stay with her and ofcourse for a better life but theres also lots of woman who want to be with man for the sake of love, if u gonna ask me if i will get myself pregnant just to have visa to stay in the uk,well i will say im not yet INSANE to do that-but no one will ever know the answer to the filipina girl that ur 'friend' might get pregnant but herself...

Anyway make it sure that she is pregnant and if its really just a 1 night stand?...and if she is really pregnant then he should be responsible coz its both their fault... Hope all will be clear soon..tc

[grahamw48]

Congratulations to you both from me too.

Takes me back.

[gWaPito]

Congratulations to you both from me too.

Takes me back.

Thanks Joe Thanks Graham and thanks Rayna
The birth was my most awesome event in my life.........he's nearly 6 weeks and has put on a third of his birth weight.

I didn't realise how selfish id become over the years until now.....James is now a bouncing baby, he sleeps on our chests...what a joy....id give my life for him......like Joe said 'he means the world to me', actually to the both of us.

[grahamw48]

I never wanted kids...but now, well I don't need to tell you.

Let's have a picture ASAP.

[gWaPito]

I never wanted kids...but now, well I don't need to tell you.

Let's have a picture ASAP.

Ill tell you what Graham, im the same as you on this. If you can have them, support them and bring them up in a totally loving environment then why not. We want a tribe!

[grahamw48]

Absolutely...why not.

This is the picture I had at my bedside when I was away working in Hong Kong, and missing my wonderful little boy so much. They are sooo cute at that age.

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[stevie c]

congrtatilations to you & jane on the birth of your baby all the best to the three of you