Quote Originally Posted by Doc Alan View Post
I'm glad if members ( including myself ) are in any way helping you to come to terms with your sad loss. Take things at your own pace, hopefully relatives and friends will continue to support you.
The fact that your "baby was born seemingly perfect" and ( I assume ) Maricris is in good health might at first sight add to your grief, as you have no explanation.
However, a miscarriage at 6 months ( 24 weeks ) and after, in the UK is regarded as a stillbirth, and - unsatisfactory as it may be - loss in the third trimester is often unexplained despite full investigations.
Without going into further possible reasons for this, I hope that you will view this positively. From what you have said, there is little reason why a future pregnancy should not be successful. That is how I hope you will come to think about this, but no one is in any way doubting your grief right now.
Please take care James and Maricris .
Thanks Doc i have forwarded on your information to Maricris, she is a brave girl and has obviously been through a lot. Thankfully she has a lot of support and we have some great future plans to look forward too.
Thanks again for all your time and help.