If my wife wants to work, then it’s entirely up to her….and any money she earns is hers, and up to her how she disposes of it.
Yes, on occasions I’ve expressed to her my views on the hours that she works, on the days (eg weekends), but the ultimate decision is hers. She also expresses her views about my job, my travelling etc etc
That’s what marriage is … give & take, being together, but also having the freedom to express your own opinion and make your own decisions.
What you’ve got is more akin to slavery. He’s basically limiting your right to decide, and your right to some independence.
