Update. Firstly I have to state that when I met the lady (socially) and for the first couple of meetings that I loosely and probably incorrectly refer to as ''dates'', I had no idea at all she was married. So i was NOT attempting to steal another mans wife and for the record there has been nothing improper. It was not untill I asked her if she would consider actually going on a ''proper date'' that she explained her situation of being married but unhappy. Since she has been in contact with me via phonecalls and texts. She has had reason to report an incident regarding her husbands son (48) to the police and as a result the son has moved out . She said that initially her intentions were to marry and be with the man (happy ever after) but that once she was married he changed completely. He ignores her , spends little time at home ( away for days at a time without informing her of where he is) Her life now consists of working (often double shifts) in a nursing home and being lonely. She admits she is trying to ''stick it out'' to get her resident visa as she has little to go back to in the filipines and feels the best for her children is to try and stay in UK.
I belive this is a genuine case of older man brings girl to uk and marrys then thinks he can continue womanising and leading a seperate life whilst keeping a wife at home for convenience. Last time I spoke to her she was even now cotemplating accepting going back to filipenes as she is so unhappy.
