wow..
Yes my Mahal agrees with what you already think yourself.
She has been and is in a relationship with this guy who is a seaman.
He seems very in love with her.
Hes asking to get married but shes not sure
he is working to save for their future.
She is jealous of some social network comments about an ex of his
I think you have dissected it all enough before to know what appears to be happening
Good luck
