Its such a shame to hear this - I think she needs to wake up, end of story - 9 months - wont she need a ILR at some point? Surely she should be looking at that and thinking the attitude is one of "biting the hand that fed you"?
I certainly dont like the attitude guys earns for UK and she earns for "home" thats terrible too! I am gonna have a lot of expense just to fit my lady into my life and I've done it for love and for what I hope is a great future and her attitude has thus far been she wants to help our household... but also send something back. Thats cool for me.
Tone
