share and share alike i say and so does emma, yes i pay all the bills and so on and emma does help most times with food, she gives me £500 a month to put into our savings account and she keeps the rest for herself, she as a little nest egg off a few hundred for her to spend how she wants , but deep down i know i could ask for that anytime and its there straight away,comunication is the only way things are done and that should never stop