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[bornatbirth]

I would keep an open mind about it as it could all be down to embarrassment, has she got your address, or better still write to her and see if she responds.
Some things can be said easier in a letter, my wife`s family were great letter writers.

you could be right, send her message and take it from there.

let her know that you understand how life in the philipines is and when they say can they borrow money it means you dont get it back....you knew that too