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[Bluebirdjones]

Steve, wake up and smell the coffee.

If she was scamming him, she'd have either taken him for a reasonable amount while he was there, or after getting the first "hand-out" of 6,000p, would have made repeated requests for more.

Neither scenario happened.


Additionally, if WorthingMale is serious about this woman.... and after travelling all that way to see her, and meeting her family, and being invited to their home.... then the next step is developing trust between each other, because surely the next step is marriage, n'est pas ?

So, if you can't trust your future wife with £82, then there's no point in continuing with the relationship is there ?

[Steve.r]

All I am saying is that we dont know, nor does Worthing'.

I am sure I would I feel all sorts of emotions at this stage. We can hope on his behalf that it is just a communication break down, not a physical break of trust. There are many scenarios, we can only offer suggestions and hope for the best.

[grahamw48]

Steve, wake up and smell the coffee.

If she was scamming him, she'd have either taken him for a reasonable amount while he was there, or after getting the first "hand-out" of 6,000p, would have made repeated requests for more.

Neither scenario happened.


Additionally, if WorthingMale is serious about this woman.... and after travelling all that way to see her, and meeting her family, and being invited to their home.... then the next step is developing trust between each other, because surely the next step is marriage, n'est pas ?

So, if you can't trust your future wife with £82, then there's no point in continuing with the relationship is there ?

For what it's worth, I tend to agree with you.

Purely speculative of course, but since the OP was asking, and we have limited info' to go on....

Of course there could be any number of competing boyfriends.
From what I've witnessed over the years, nothing would surprise me.