she asked to borrow the money, she offered to pay it back.
I knew when I was sending it to her I would never get it back which I was and still am fine.
The issue about trust is that it was being used for her Dad and not shoes or cellphone. You have to learn about people, they have to earn your trust and same the other way round. She might thought I was trying to use her like so many foreign men use asian women.
If I could only get hold of her I could tell her this, but nothing.
Thankyou for advice and inputs from everybody.
