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[worthingmale]

latest update she appeared online and sent me message. I was not online to talk so only received message.

she apologised for not being able to talk for many months, and not to think she is hiding from me becuase I sent her money.
She is working and she is studying at college so is busy 7 days a week. She is studying to FBSA food and beverage service.

She graduates in October and wants me to be there, and she was planning to suprise me and ask me to be there. She said it was nto becuase of embarassed and not to think like that and said sorry for worrying me. That I should not think any negatives, I replied I had to much time to think, and think and think and think.

I sent her a message back going, 2 months is to long not to talk, we need to talk more often, and there must be a way to talk. That I didnt want any money back, and that her family is more important that money.

The she dissapeared again, the one thing I did say was even if you are busy leave me a message or email saying you are busy and that everything is okay.

Who knows what happens from here ?? Normally I am a very private person and hate airing my private stuff in public, but thought you guys had been through similar so could help and support me.

[joebloggs]

latest update she appeared online and sent me message. I was not online to talk so only received message.

she apologised for not being able to talk for many months, and not to think she is hiding from me becuase I sent her money.
She is working and she is studying at college so is busy 7 days a week. She is studying to FBSA food and beverage service.

She graduates in October and wants me to be there, and she was planning to suprise me and ask me to be there. She said it was nto becuase of embarassed and not to think like that and said sorry for worrying me. That I should not think any negatives, I replied I had to much time to think, and think and think and think.

I sent her a message back going, 2 months is to long not to talk, we need to talk more often, and there must be a way to talk. That I didnt want any money back, and that her family is more important that money.

The she dissapeared again, the one thing I did say was even if you are busy leave me a message or email saying you are busy and that everything is okay.

Who knows what happens from here ?? Normally I am a very private person and hate airing my private stuff in public, but thought you guys had been through similar so could help and support me.

my misses traveled on a bus for hours a day to and from uni, left early , got home late, she didn't have inet at home then, but still managed to send me emails most days
by going to inet cafe late at night, i put a stop to that when i found out, i didn't want her going out at night, and paid for inet, but where there is a WILL there is a WAY