Hi,
I am a British man who met and married a Filipina in the Philippines in 2008.

As soon as I left the Philippines and returned to the UK, to await her spousal settlement visa being granted
I much later found out she moved in with a Filipino boyfriend had a baby by him,
She then came to the UK, with me having no knoladge of her 3 month old son (all at my expense of course) purely to be able to work in the UK and send more money back home than I could give her.

Some people just use other people she was supposed to be a god loving person, but was unfaithful and scammed me straight after our wedding that around 100 of her family attended.

I divorced her this year.
Mick.