need your thoughts.

[mickcant]

As soon as I left the Philippines and returned to the UK, to await her spousal settlement visa being granted
I much later found out she moved in with a Filipino boyfriend had a baby by him,

Exactly the same situation that happened to an English friend. His new wife kept delaying the move to UK, eventually he smelt a rat and engaged an enquiry agent who reported the new birth of her child with her trike driver boyfriend. He was granted an annulment on the grounds that the marriage had not been consummated but it cost him dearly.
He is now retired and married here in Philippines

My ex only found out I knew about their baby on the divorce petition, with his full name on.

She phoned me stright away wanting to know how I knew about the baby, I left her wondering on that, she told me so mant lise she did not then derserve the truth
Mick.

[baby38]

Well makes me wonder these pinay women getting married,delaying getting their spouse visa, it happened to Tanga and his friend,Mickcant and myself, and other I have heard of, I can understand why Mickcant and other are so suspicious of trusting again, thats why myself and others are here to warn others to be careful.I know one man got married he brought a house and land, when finally when spouse visa was being considered, found out she was already married to a judge.Just recently a passenger who I pick up in my taxi, was concerned about his son returning from the Phills, the girls cousin who introduced him to the girl pushing for a finance visa, he came with his father for my advice, he recommended a tourist visa to get to know the girl better, however he went against my advice, filed for a finance visa, the other week he got the result, the visa was refused on the grounds she told immigration she had 1 child but they found out she had 2 children, the woman here in Australia who recommended this girl to this man, has a bad reputation in my town, the rumors were she was only interested getting the girl here and getting a visa rip the man off.