Why do foreign men go to the Philippines to look for a wife?

[stevewool]

When an older guy seeks out a younger woman it's usually because he is looking for that younger woman to make him feel better about himself
moreoverolder men pursue younger women is because they have a distorted view of women and relationships. Many of these men have been burned and as a result they tend to believe that all women in that age demographic are the same.

The sad part is that at one time most of these men did believe in love and commitment.

But after experiencing relationship hell and having their hearts broken (yes, ladies, men do get have their hearts broken, they just won't admit it to you), many men make a decision to avoid the older women.

you are right but so wrong too Moy, i wear my heart on my sleave and i cry too,we dont pursue younger women its just how it is, love comes in all shapes and forms, who knows how it happens, we all have been burned sometime in our lives , its how we recover from it that counts,goodluck to anyone that can can start again

[Moy]

you are right but so wrong too Moy, i wear my heart on my sleave and i cry too,we dont pursue younger women its just how it is, love comes in all shapes and forms, who knows how it happens, we all have been burned sometime in our lives , its how we recover from it that counts,goodluck to anyone that can can start again

no worries Stevewool we all have a diffirent opinion and perception in LIFE AND i do understand your side

[stevewool]

nothing to understand Moy, i am just like many here a guy with so much to give to the right person, luck has come my way and i have found my beautiful wife and as emma says she is lucky too, so if you are happy with what you have then life is good too

[Moy]

nothing to understand Moy, i am just like many here a guy with so much to give to the right person, luck has come my way and i have found my beautiful wife and as emma says she is lucky too, so if you are happy with what you have then life is good too

and i am the same stevewool..a woman who found my husband as loving as you to your wife so we are all lucky here
this thread is just like a spice that makes our life meaningful by discussing this sort of thing but dont mean to offence or hurt anybody

[Terpe]

Moy, how about when the younger woman seeks out and pursues the older man ?
Or when the younger man seeks out and pursues the older woman ?

Human relationships are quite complex I think. Much more complex than perhaps you may have realised or experienced.

[Moy]

Moy, how about when the younger woman seeks out and pursues the older man ?
Or when the younger man seeks out and pursues the older woman ?

Human relationships are quite complex I think. Much more complex than perhaps you may have realised or experienced.

Love cannot be analyzed or explained. Science knows no more about it than the man and woman on the street. Some ideas are that a young womans DNA seeks an older financially stable man in order to care for herself and any offspring, and that older men are attracted to young fertile women. Another hypothesis scientists have is that a fertile woman emits a signal that she is ready to conceive and men are programed to detect the signal.
young women like older men because the relationship comes with benefits – lots of them. Face it -- we are a very simple race. We look at dating the same way we look at a financial balance sheet.
When young women marry older men, we nod knowingly and think, DNA programs women to seek out older more stable men, and older men go for young fertile babes to produce more children

It is not rare to see a younger guy and an older woman date and have a very intense sexual and romantic relationship, which defies the traditional “older man, younger woman” set-up that we are used to seeing. This is not surprising
Many younger guys are driven to women who are 10 years older than they are or more, as these women are often more confident and more sexually driven and passionate than the younger women. These younger guys are both curious and excited about dating a woman who is not ashamed of what she wants from a man sexually after being frustrated with trying to date girls of their own age, as the latter are often confused about what they want and are not as open about their romantic interest and sexuality, which makes it much harder for young guys to approach them and express their romantic interest. There are some other compelling reasons for why older women are more attractive to younger guys.
Some people are committed to live every moment to its fullest and will do what they can to enjoy what they have while they still have it. A woman who belongs to that category should enjoy your relationship with a young guy and all its benefits and thrills, while recognizing that it will eventually be over due to no one’s fault

[Tawi2]

Never once been out with a much younger woman,it would make me uncomfortable,I relate to and prefer someone of my own age,just my choice

[Moy]

Never once been out with a much younger woman,it would make me uncomfortable,I relate to and prefer someone of my own age,just my choice

tupperware(joke lang po) hehehe

[Tawi2]

Your firing the questions Moy,quid pro quo,whats the age-chasm between you and your husband?

[Moy]

Your firing the questions Moy,quid pro quo,whats the age-chasm between you and your husband?

only 10 years he is head lolz

[grahamw48]

OMG all this analysis .

Given the CHOICE between a wrinkly middle-aged woman with stretch marks and saggy boobs, bad attitude and bad teeth, and a pretty twenty something ?

No-brainer, far as I'm concerned.

[Moy]

OMG all this analysis .

Given the CHOICE between a wrinkly middle-aged woman with stretch marks and saggy boobs, bad attitude and bad teeth, and a pretty twenty something ?

No-brainer, far as I'm concerned.

Some men are actually afraid to show their own body naked to a woman. If they are fat, if they have a birth- mark, if they have inadequacy feelings about their genitals, this poor self-image can become so strong that they will actively avoid sexual situations

[branno]

And wen u say those words ... i am yours... thats it the most beautiful words ever ..

[sweetnote143]

OMG all this analysis .

Given the CHOICE between a wrinkly middle-aged woman with stretch marks and saggy boobs, bad attitude and bad teeth, and a pretty twenty something ?

No-brainer, far as I'm concerned.

[grahamw48]

Thankfully I have a fit, flab-free body and am blessed with wonderfully proportioned bits and pieces.

I would however welcome the opportunity to find out if they still function.

[bornatbirth]

Thankfully I have a fit, flab-free body and am blessed with wonderfully proportioned bits and pieces.

I would however welcome the opportunity to find out if they still function.

isnt lestaxi near you

[branno]

i gather it sounds like you play opening bowler for lancashire...

[Moy]

[Englishman2010]

Moy, you are being very judgemental about people you don't actually know anything about. Each of us here has our own story about how and why we ended up in a Fil/Brit relationship. Most of us have very different stories and the only common theme is the fact they are Fil/Brit relationships. Don't tar us with the same brush as your own experiences please. If you try to befriend us, rather than insulting us and our reasons for having Fil/Brit relationships, you might find out a lot more about us and change your strange view of British men and why they have Fil/brit relationships

[Moy]

this is not my experience and apologized if i sounds judgemental IM NOT
Ive gather this inf though the people i actually meet lolz..dont take it too personal and sorry if i offence you or to anybody here..ill watch my words from now own

[Steve.r]

Moy, I dont understand why you think age is such a deciding factor either way When you fall in love, you fall in love. Nothing can stop it. I think you have a distorted view on love and relationships, you should not always believe the stories of woe you are told or jusdge others by your own experiences. I fell in love with my wife because she has the most beautiful warm smile and an infectious personality. Why did she fall in love with me? certainly wasn't my bank account, status or material wealth. It was because I wasn't full of crap and I treated her like a lady. She is 16 years younger but does it matter?? not a bit.

[stevewool]

Moy, I dont understand why you think age is such a deciding factor either way When you fall in love, you fall in love. Nothing can stop it. I think you have a distorted view on love and relationships, you should not always believe the stories of woe you are told or jusdge others by your own experiences. I fell in love with my wife because she has the most beautiful warm smile and an infectious personality. Why did she fall in love with me? certainly wasn't my bank account, status or material wealth. It was because I wasn't full of crap and I treated her like a lady. She is 16 years younger but does it matter?? not a bit.

could it have been those shades you where wearing at the time steve

[Steve.r]

could it have been those shades you where wearing at the time steve

They wern't even 'rose tinted' either Steve.

[Tawi2]

Your not offensive Moy,but have you ever directed the question at your Husband?Why did he look east for a wife?Did he seek you online?What was his reason for finding a cyber-woman instead of just meeting someone in the flesh?

[Moy]

Your not offensive Moy,but have you ever directed the question at your Husband?Why did he look east for a wife?Did he seek you online?What was his reason for finding a cyber-woman instead of just meeting someone in the flesh?

i dont need too tawi we meet through work ..his working in PH AND from that the love story begin

[stevewool]

this forum and site is here for all to enjoy and help others, we all cant agree all the time, i am not offended by what you are saying but can i just say this, the people i have meet are wonderful happy people who have the same purpose as me, to get the best out of life

[stevewool]

so you say your man is 10 years older, where did you meet each other

[Moy]

so you say your man is 10 years older, where did you meet each other

through my work

[Moy]

please and my apologized i dont mean anything here and dont intended to have a bad discussion ill end my replied in this thread

[Tawi2]

tupperware

Not "plastic" at all if I had wanted someone 15-25 years my junior,trust me,I could have had someone within a day were I in Pinas,i just wouldnt feel comfortable holding hands with a girl like that different strokes for different blokes.