Moy, I dont understand why you think age is such a deciding factor either way
When you fall in love, you fall in love. Nothing can stop it. I think you have a distorted view on love and relationships, you should not always believe the stories of woe you are told or jusdge others by your own experiences. I fell in love with my wife because she has the most beautiful warm smile and an infectious personality. Why did she fall in love with me? certainly wasn't my bank account, status or material wealth. It was because I wasn't full of crap and I treated her like a lady. She is 16 years younger but does it matter?? not a bit.