Quote Originally Posted by Terpe View Post
Moy, how about when the younger woman seeks out and pursues the older man ?
Or when the younger man seeks out and pursues the older woman ?

Human relationships are quite complex I think. Much more complex than perhaps you may have realised or experienced.
Love cannot be analyzed or explained. Science knows no more about it than the man and woman on the street. Some ideas are that a young womans DNA seeks an older financially stable man in order to care for herself and any offspring, and that older men are attracted to young fertile women. Another hypothesis scientists have is that a fertile woman emits a signal that she is ready to conceive and men are programed to detect the signal.
young women like older men because the relationship comes with benefits – lots of them. Face it -- we are a very simple race. We look at dating the same way we look at a financial balance sheet.
When young women marry older men, we nod knowingly and think, DNA programs women to seek out older more stable men, and older men go for young fertile babes to produce more children

It is not rare to see a younger guy and an older woman date and have a very intense sexual and romantic relationship, which defies the traditional “older man, younger woman” set-up that we are used to seeing. This is not surprising
Many younger guys are driven to women who are 10 years older than they are or more, as these women are often more confident and more sexually driven and passionate than the younger women. These younger guys are both curious and excited about dating a woman who is not ashamed of what she wants from a man sexually after being frustrated with trying to date girls of their own age, as the latter are often confused about what they want and are not as open about their romantic interest and sexuality, which makes it much harder for young guys to approach them and express their romantic interest. There are some other compelling reasons for why older women are more attractive to younger guys.
Some people are committed to live every moment to its fullest and will do what they can to enjoy what they have while they still have it. A woman who belongs to that category should enjoy your relationship with a young guy and all its benefits and thrills, while recognizing that it will eventually be over due to no one’s fault