Why do foreign men go to the Philippines to look for a wife?

[tanga]

Are you trying to say that most of us Pinoys are tanga,tanga?

Not at all sars, I am just stating a fact, but let me qualify the comment based on my experience. For many years I have been asked what country I come from.If I say UK or Great Britain,the majority of the time I get a blank stare.If I say England then it seems to makes sense but pains me as I am Scottish.I used to say Scotland,you know braveheart,Mel Gibson,but even if the inquirer has seen the film,its odds on they are clueless to the setting.
On a similar tune I have to say that some Filipinos must be the most well travelled people I have ever met. Even as a nation which provides so many of the worlds seaman I am amazed at the places to which some Filipinos have travelled.
I met a Filipino who was working in Florida who had recently returned from safari in Kenya and had also been on a cruise from Chile to Antarctic.On my weekly pilgrimage to soak in the hot springs I have met a doctor who had just returned from UN work in Romania and was asked about cruises on the Danube by a couple who had enjoyed their last trip to Czech republic,have discussed the merits of the Blue Lagoon hot springs in Iceland with a local lady who visited her daughter there each year and debated the difference between Bluewater shopping center in Kent with Mall of Asia
May I should get out a bit more

[sweetnote143]

Been to Maguindanao often,basilan a few times,jolo often Your easily scared Dont ever go to Kabul,if basilan scares you Kabul will terrify you

I wouldnt dream of going to Kabul

and to think that they've always discourage people of visiting Samar Island it's far safer than those places mentioned above and it's a beautiful place, lots of islands to hop...and what I like about the place it's not crowded with tourists I can have the whole islet to myself...ah, the simple pleasure of living in Philippines

[branno]

lets not delude our selfs on here ..... ok... ok first question.... how many men actually have a wife or girl friend on this site that is actually say ten years or more younger then them selfs... its of no importance to me but in reality... why do we want a younger wife ....

[Moy]

When an older guy seeks out a younger woman it's usually because he is looking for that younger woman to make him feel better about himself
moreoverolder men pursue younger women is because they have a distorted view of women and relationships. Many of these men have been burned and as a result they tend to believe that all women in that age demographic are the same.

The sad part is that at one time most of these men did believe in love and commitment.

But after experiencing relationship hell and having their hearts broken (yes, ladies, men do get have their hearts broken, they just won't admit it to you), many men make a decision to avoid the older women.

[Terpe]

Moy, how about when the younger woman seeks out and pursues the older man ?
Or when the younger man seeks out and pursues the older woman ?

Human relationships are quite complex I think. Much more complex than perhaps you may have realised or experienced.

[jon richard]

Hey Moy
just had a look at your tirade and would like to stick my oar in.

As a newbie......gently of course......
Does not being able to relate to a woman of your own age realy mean all of those things...!!
dont think so myself !!

[Tawi2]

Never once been out with a much younger woman,it would make me uncomfortable,I relate to and prefer someone of my own age,just my choice

[Tawi2]

Your firing the questions Moy,quid pro quo,whats the age-chasm between you and your husband?

[Moy]

Moy, how about when the younger woman seeks out and pursues the older man ?
Or when the younger man seeks out and pursues the older woman ?

Human relationships are quite complex I think. Much more complex than perhaps you may have realised or experienced.

Love cannot be analyzed or explained. Science knows no more about it than the man and woman on the street. Some ideas are that a young womans DNA seeks an older financially stable man in order to care for herself and any offspring, and that older men are attracted to young fertile women. Another hypothesis scientists have is that a fertile woman emits a signal that she is ready to conceive and men are programed to detect the signal.
young women like older men because the relationship comes with benefits – lots of them. Face it -- we are a very simple race. We look at dating the same way we look at a financial balance sheet.
When young women marry older men, we nod knowingly and think, DNA programs women to seek out older more stable men, and older men go for young fertile babes to produce more children

It is not rare to see a younger guy and an older woman date and have a very intense sexual and romantic relationship, which defies the traditional “older man, younger woman” set-up that we are used to seeing. This is not surprising
Many younger guys are driven to women who are 10 years older than they are or more, as these women are often more confident and more sexually driven and passionate than the younger women. These younger guys are both curious and excited about dating a woman who is not ashamed of what she wants from a man sexually after being frustrated with trying to date girls of their own age, as the latter are often confused about what they want and are not as open about their romantic interest and sexuality, which makes it much harder for young guys to approach them and express their romantic interest. There are some other compelling reasons for why older women are more attractive to younger guys.
Some people are committed to live every moment to its fullest and will do what they can to enjoy what they have while they still have it. A woman who belongs to that category should enjoy your relationship with a young guy and all its benefits and thrills, while recognizing that it will eventually be over due to no one’s fault

[Moy]

Your firing the questions Moy,quid pro quo,whats the age-chasm between you and your husband?

only 10 years he is head lolz

[Moy]

no worries

[Moy]

Hey Moy
just had a look at your tirade and would like to stick my oar in.

As a newbie......gently of course......
Does not being able to relate to a woman of your own age realy mean all of those things...!!
dont think so myself !!

no worries

[Moy]

Never once been out with a much younger woman,it would make me uncomfortable,I relate to and prefer someone of my own age,just my choice

tupperware(joke lang po) hehehe

[grahamw48]

OMG all this analysis .

Given the CHOICE between a wrinkly middle-aged woman with stretch marks and saggy boobs, bad attitude and bad teeth, and a pretty twenty something ?

No-brainer, far as I'm concerned.

[Moy]

OMG all this analysis .

Given the CHOICE between a wrinkly middle-aged woman with stretch marks and saggy boobs, bad attitude and bad teeth, and a pretty twenty something ?

No-brainer, far as I'm concerned.

Some men are actually afraid to show their own body naked to a woman. If they are fat, if they have a birth- mark, if they have inadequacy feelings about their genitals, this poor self-image can become so strong that they will actively avoid sexual situations

[grahamw48]

Thankfully I have a fit, flab-free body and am blessed with wonderfully proportioned bits and pieces.

I would however welcome the opportunity to find out if they still function.

[stevewool]

When an older guy seeks out a younger woman it's usually because he is looking for that younger woman to make him feel better about himself
moreoverolder men pursue younger women is because they have a distorted view of women and relationships. Many of these men have been burned and as a result they tend to believe that all women in that age demographic are the same.

The sad part is that at one time most of these men did believe in love and commitment.

But after experiencing relationship hell and having their hearts broken (yes, ladies, men do get have their hearts broken, they just won't admit it to you), many men make a decision to avoid the older women.

you are right but so wrong too Moy, i wear my heart on my sleave and i cry too,we dont pursue younger women its just how it is, love comes in all shapes and forms, who knows how it happens, we all have been burned sometime in our lives , its how we recover from it that counts,goodluck to anyone that can can start again

[bornatbirth]

Thankfully I have a fit, flab-free body and am blessed with wonderfully proportioned bits and pieces.

I would however welcome the opportunity to find out if they still function.

isnt lestaxi near you

[Moy]

you are right but so wrong too Moy, i wear my heart on my sleave and i cry too,we dont pursue younger women its just how it is, love comes in all shapes and forms, who knows how it happens, we all have been burned sometime in our lives , its how we recover from it that counts,goodluck to anyone that can can start again

no worries Stevewool we all have a diffirent opinion and perception in LIFE AND i do understand your side

[Englishman2010]

Moy, you are being very judgemental about people you don't actually know anything about. Each of us here has our own story about how and why we ended up in a Fil/Brit relationship. Most of us have very different stories and the only common theme is the fact they are Fil/Brit relationships. Don't tar us with the same brush as your own experiences please. If you try to befriend us, rather than insulting us and our reasons for having Fil/Brit relationships, you might find out a lot more about us and change your strange view of British men and why they have Fil/brit relationships

[stevewool]

nothing to understand Moy, i am just like many here a guy with so much to give to the right person, luck has come my way and i have found my beautiful wife and as emma says she is lucky too, so if you are happy with what you have then life is good too

[Moy]

this is not my experience and apologized if i sounds judgemental IM NOT
Ive gather this inf though the people i actually meet lolz..dont take it too personal and sorry if i offence you or to anybody here..ill watch my words from now own

[Tawi2]

Your not offensive Moy,but have you ever directed the question at your Husband?Why did he look east for a wife?Did he seek you online?What was his reason for finding a cyber-woman instead of just meeting someone in the flesh?

[stevewool]

this forum and site is here for all to enjoy and help others, we all cant agree all the time, i am not offended by what you are saying but can i just say this, the people i have meet are wonderful happy people who have the same purpose as me, to get the best out of life

[Moy]

nothing to understand Moy, i am just like many here a guy with so much to give to the right person, luck has come my way and i have found my beautiful wife and as emma says she is lucky too, so if you are happy with what you have then life is good too

and i am the same stevewool..a woman who found my husband as loving as you to your wife so we are all lucky here
this thread is just like a spice that makes our life meaningful by discussing this sort of thing but dont mean to offence or hurt anybody

[stevewool]

so you say your man is 10 years older, where did you meet each other

[Moy]

Your not offensive Moy,but have you ever directed the question at your Husband?Why did he look east for a wife?Did he seek you online?What was his reason for finding a cyber-woman instead of just meeting someone in the flesh?

i dont need too tawi we meet through work ..his working in PH AND from that the love story begin

[Moy]

so you say your man is 10 years older, where did you meet each other

through my work

[Steve.r]

Moy, I dont understand why you think age is such a deciding factor either way When you fall in love, you fall in love. Nothing can stop it. I think you have a distorted view on love and relationships, you should not always believe the stories of woe you are told or jusdge others by your own experiences. I fell in love with my wife because she has the most beautiful warm smile and an infectious personality. Why did she fall in love with me? certainly wasn't my bank account, status or material wealth. It was because I wasn't full of crap and I treated her like a lady. She is 16 years younger but does it matter?? not a bit.

[Moy]

please and my apologized i dont mean anything here and dont intended to have a bad discussion ill end my replied in this thread