I'm sorry to know of your decision Arthur, I second the special mention for Scott, and sympathise with anyone else involved.
Actually meeting people changes things from internet friendships to reality, whether it's forum members, long distance relationships, or both . It also helps prevent misunderstandings which can often be sorted out ( amicably ) face-to-face.
As you know I already apologised for being unable to go. I have past experience of organising professional meetings, where at least an apology is a positive sign that someone has actually read and thought about the event !
Right now the last thing on your mind, I'm sure, is to plan another meeting. However, there are always fiestas The forum is also great for safe contacts both here in the UK and in the Philippines .
Last, but not least, Steve and Emma's wedding last year was a great way to meet members and make new friends . They made everyone so welcome !