Are wedding plans needed??

[russ01539]

To resnic123.

I assume you have known your partner for some time now - 3-6 months maybe ?

Another 6 months in the UK, and you will have known/been with her for a year +.

Question: Surely if you truly loved your partner you would know within this period of time if whether or not you are both 'right' for one another ?

If you are unsure after this time then I suggest you maybe aren't ready for marriage, or have a serious commitment problem. Your lady in PI will love you and want to be with you wherever you are, in UK or the north pole it doesn't matter. Sounds like its a commitment problem to me.

[resnic123]

To resnic123.

I assume you have known your partner for some time now - 3-6 months maybe ?

Another 6 months in the UK, and you will have known/been with her for a year +.

Question: Surely if you truly loved your partner you would know within this period of time if whether or not you are both 'right' for one another ?

If you are unsure after this time then I suggest you maybe aren't ready for marriage, or have a serious commitment problem. Your lady in PI will love you and want to be with you wherever you are, in UK or the north pole it doesn't matter. Sounds like its a commitment problem to me.

Hi there Russ
Its not a commitment thing.
I 've known my Gf for since Nov 2005 and i visitied her 3 times in The Philippines.
In my eyes chatting to someone on line and spending a total 7 weeks with someone, in and out of different hotels, is not something to base marriage on.

Marriage is a huge commitment in life and i've seen too many go wrong to just jump into it.

I need to know whst its like to spend a long period of time with someone before that commitment. I feel a tourist visa would allow me to do this.
But its ulikely i she will get

Thanks