On the wider front.

A person who gets any sort of financial benefits from the Government (that is any subsidy / gift to them from those (of us) who pay tax and do not get it all back in benefits) is a drain on society. Dare I say, parasite ?

Why would any government want to permit / encourage such people to settle in their county ?

Choosing to marry whom you wish is not a given right, no more than choosing what sort of lifestyle one has, the car they drive, the house they live in, or who should be permitted to join you in a country, etc.

That is, if you can't afford it why should others provide the wherewithal for you?

Quote, "they have now decided to ban us'' poor'' from being in love or happy"

Not so, just that you must it by your own efforts, not on the backs of others.