although the first post illustrates a point that people tell us say "ni shabi" to a chinese person - it means, "i want to be your friend" , when in reality, it means . . . "You are a . . ."! lol!
Hey, even I have been guilty of this! Particularly with one geezer who was a nasty guy who loved the chinese gals . . . I think i killed his chances with that one
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