She, like her mother in HK - just want peace of mind which I can understand. She has been badly hurt before and I don't want her to be hurt again but rushing into marraige will not guarantee hapiness, in fact it could force us apart, which brings me to another question.
I am going to Thailand for 30 days at the end of this month because my visa will expire and I have many things to do over there, people to see regarding a job and money to collect from a newspaper I was writing for. i am expected to return and marry in July.
Let's say I did marry her and it didn't work out, what would I stand to lose?
