its called the 'law of attraction' ,The Law of Attraction simply says that you attract into your life whatever you think about...

well i've been thinking about mylenne klass for months, if not years, and where is she

badboyako, think about this we me, we'll see if it works

aromulus think of your chelsea

scouser keith think of and Mancs ... maybe not..

negative thoughts, bit like me, always think the worse can happen, the old joke of 'your so negative, if i put you in a dark room, you would develop'

i know what you mean, cannot walk away, i've known my wife must be for near 7 or 8 yrs , in the early years, and long distance relationships are difficult, we both wanted to walk away at some point, seeing each other twice a year, but i couldn't, wondering what would happen to her if i did, and when she needed someone the most... ,but near 5 years of marriage, 2 kids, and a stepson, looks like we should make it past the 7year hitch

i'll leave you with some words from the famous kat stevens, or seeing your only 33, the cover by boy zone from father to son...

father
Its not time to make a change,
Just relax, take it easy.
Youre still young, thats your fault,
Theres so much you have to know.
Find a girl, settle down,
If you want you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but Im happy.

I was once like you are now, and I know that its not easy,
To be calm when youve found something going on.
But take your time, think a lot,
Why, think of everything youve got.
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not

son
All the times that I cried, keeping all the things I knew inside,
Its hard, but its harder to ignore it.
If they were right, Id agree, but its them you know not me.
Now theres a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.
(father-- stay stay stay, why must you go and
Make this decision alone? )

so take your time, think a lot...

good luck, and believe me , my stituation was a lot worse than yours...