If you and your husband, wife or civil partner have been living together outside the UK for four years or more, and you meet all the necessary requirements to stay permanently in the UK, you may be granted indefinite leave to enter. These requirements include showing that you have the necessary level of knowledge of the English language and life in the UK (see relevant section of this guidance for more information).
I came across this above and we are currently looking to relocate from Cebu to the UK. Dec 7th we would actually be married 4 years but the information is a bit "vague" on what terms living together as I do transient work. Just wondered if anyone else has come across this issue as I am looking to hold off applications until December if it will assist the process.