just curioushow many here have been married before/divorce or single first before they marry
again..
and so struggling to deal with and how other overcome it..coz me personally i am married for almost 7 years now but everyday i felt the itch
strike me badly and so frustrating
any advice and experience here
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Visit a clinic or doctor Moybut everyday i felt the itch
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
been there few times Tawi boyOriginally Posted by Tawi2
Visit a clinic or doctor Moy
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Does Mr Moy have the same itchIf so there would be some questions getting asked in Casa Moy
Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again. But life goes on.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the passion that she shows to the outside world.
in that case i dunnoDoes Mr Moy have the same itch
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they say you shouldnt scratch it
is it not something most people go through, you get what you believe you want and when you have it,you begin to wonder if you was better without, if you give it up ,then you wonder if you did the right thing , then think you want it back,,,, and so on. i think its a humane thing
i can't remember how long i've been married, must be more than 7yrs, then again number 7 was never i lucky number for me
they say you shouldnt scratch it
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i can't remember how long i've been married
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take your mind off the itch have lots of
aha thats your secret..take your mind off the itch have lots of
no wonder you look young steeve
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wow thanks look it and feel it , well most days
in your age i doubtwow thanks look it and feel it , well most days
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Moy, you may need to study this carefully.
I've heard of a scientific theory (well kind of) for the seven-year itch. It's about the possibility that you will have completely replenished all the cells in your body every seven years, so that after 7 years you become a totally different person.
Likely with an itch due to all that particle replacement.
I think I've had quite a few. Bit like Doctor Who really.
Anyway, solely on a chemical level, there's a lot to be said for atoms switching between molecules and consequently forming new molecules, then breaking up existing molecules, etc etc.
It seems logical, well to me, that this is one level on which human bodies are like simmering soups of frenetic activity.
Hormones are extremely sensitive to chemical activity in our body. Right?
So after 7 years they create certain behaviours and accompanying 'hormonal itches'.
Now, to really answer the nub of your original question... if we can't really hold onto our protons for very long because we lose the atoms and molecules that they're attached to. And if our hormones are likewise affected by all this chemical activity, then yeah, after 7 years of this activity we do become a different person, we become someone else.
Mmmmm................. I hope this helps you Moy.
If not give me a call!
hmm reading your reply takes a while
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The Seven Year Itch - inclination to become unfaithful after seven years - is the title of the film from the 1950's starring Marilyn Monroe.
In the UK the average length of marriages ending in divorce is actually over eleven years ( in 2007 there were 270,000 marriages and 144,000 divorces ).
It can't be explained on a cellular level. It's true many cells die + are replaced by stem cells which contain all the genetic information needed to produce identical tissues. With skin and gut, this is rapid, other tissues slower, and some cells ( in brain and heart ) can't be replaced. There are controls and balances, including the action of hormones like insulin, thyroid and steroid hormones. Germ cells ( sperm and eggs ) allow genetic information to be modified and passed on to the next generation.
Errors in cell division may result in disease like cancer. But we don't become "totally different person(s) ". There may be other reasons for not sustaining love and interest in each other beyond a decade or two. In the past people married younger, had children, and stayed together until " death us do part ". Now with increased life expectancy people live several decades after marriage, children have left home, emotional and economic benefits may decline, and new opportunities exist ( like internet dating ). This is not to condone what is happening, just to explain the facts.
The original " seven year itch " was a phrase used in the USA from the 19th century to describe a skin condition which LASTED seven years - probably scabies, which can now be effectively treated
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