what mistakes or things that you think , i should not have done that, have each one done since moving here , or moving there, Well everyday we get a phone call from differant charities, today was the straw that broke the camels back, sitting down just enjoying tea, and may i say Emma is out, the phone goes, hello can i speak to Emma please , who is it i ask , childrens charty she says, not in and may i ask how did you get this number and explaining to her everyday the phone goes asking for Emma, well Emma filled in a form on the internet,Great good old Em, i have tried to tell her about the wrongs and the rights and how people just dont take no for a answer too, dont get my wrong i give to charities but only the 2, blind and salvastion army,anyway i hope i have sorted this out we shall see tomorrow if the phone goes again