Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
you are caring full-time for your child
That's highly commendable ... I admire you for that!

... don't despair; instead, why not focus your attention on encouraging your b/f to come and see you in the Phils? That way, you'd have the chance of getting to know each other properly (especially if you haven't met yet!) ... and it would put you in a stronger position if/when you [eventually] decided on a more permanent arrangement.

Meanwhile, to the friendly, online filipino/uk community.