Joe
It’s such a shame that the relationship that you have with your wife isn’t as “successful” as your business. Since you are in your mid 40s, the first thing that springs to my mind is “mid-life crisis”. The second is how could any decent human-being want to use a woman of any nationality in the way that you describe. Thirdly, it would appear that agreeing to this, your wife is probably glad to get you off her back at the moment and finally, if you go ahead, in time it will almost certainly damage the relationship you have with your wife further and you can kiss goodbye to your marriage. If you are serious, in my opinion, your proposal is a receipe for disaster and god help any woman who is silly enough to become involved.
Doc Alan’s suggestion of counselling is a far more sensible solution, be it with either a marriage or a sex counsellor.
Good luck!
