Hello my first post . Eventually want to start a relationship again following a recent breakup following 10 years with an Irish partner , still hurting badly so at the moment ( she went off with someone else ) just looking for friends and chat as in my present state of mind I would not make a good prospect for anyone . I worked in SE Asia long before meeting my ex and rented a house in Manila , have not been there for years but got some great memories and regret not keeping in touch with old friends there , of the many countries I visited Philippines was the best followed a close second by Australia.