ok so is it cheaper to pay for a wedding or to just choose to live together ?
is it cheaper to pay solicitors and court fees to split up or to just grab a bag and go your seperate ways ?
of course i realise where children are involved it gets more complicated, and that you have the same rights whether you are married or not,
the question about marriage that ana raised was weather or not it was practical, and thats all about perspective,
Even after twenty five years of marriage and pissed off for the last twelve of them, i only stayed for my kids, i never once strayed because i belive in the sanctity of marriage, a manogonist through and through, if someone wants to have an affair they should not settle down with anyone, stay single,
