I got this problem about my bf he doesn't wanna settle down he wants us to do ''living in together and no marriage'' which is in my part it's kinda unfair or not right and I told him that I don't wanna do that forever then he said that we will be forever in this situation LDR coz there is no option C. These are what he said:
~ok we get married, right now. I'm sure there is a website you can do it LOL
then we are married with means all other girls will want me even more (coz I`m married) and nothing, absolutely NOTHING keeps me from going with any of them. if we get divorced then you get nothing, coz I have nothing. so WHAT THE .... does it mean???????????????
i have no problem with getting married coz that's just a word
these days commitment is a different word
~no, marrige and divorce - that's just words in terms of law. I don't give a .... about those terms. I know I either want to be with a person or not. I don't care what the world is calling it. and if you wanna get married for your traditions sake, that's fine. but it won't change anything on someone steeling me away from you. that's still my decision in the end and not a piece of paper's one
~i told you, for me it deosn't mean anything so I dont care
all it means is it costs a lot of money
he said he is very sure about me but he said he can't understand the need of getting married
~I am very sure about you but I just don't understand the need. if you pay for it all or your family then it's fine. for me it's just connected to money loss. I'm sure about you but I don't need a expensive piece of paper to tell me that
he said he is happy when I am happy but I can't understand him
this is really bothering me
