Maybe you need to meet a younger man with less responsibilities and 'baggage'.
This guy is showing all the signs of not being ready to commit fully to a serious relationship with you, and all the sacrifices and compromises that that would entail.
Personally I also think it's most disrespectful of him to book you both into a hotel when you hardly know each other, rather than just visit you from HIS hotel, but that's just me. Maybe I'm old-fashioned'.
I could line up dozens of girls from the internet and meet them in this way.
There is a lot more than that to a meaningful relationship and thoughts of marriage.
I recommend you look for a relationship with fewer obstacles and complications, otherwise you may only find misery and disappointment.
Sorry if that sounds harsh.
