Hmmmmm there are always 2 sides to every story this guy has helped out the lady a fair bit in terms of financial support and my gut instinct is saying i dont think he is " all bad" just a bit of a coward and now in retrospect is taking a long sober cold look in the light of day and backing out, maybe?
Its very sad that kids do get attached a "kano" in the Phils seems like Father Christmas to a lot of these kids whose Moms are often living on a hundred or so quid a month.
The point i want to make here is BEWARE FACEBOOK! Its a NIGHTMARE. I have an ex* that my current GF knows all about and if ever the ex comments on anything etc then the full " tampo" starts up. I accept she has a past as well as i have - but FB is the cause of so much grief in many relationships, BEWARE!
* I don't believe in deleting the ex, cos still a friend just as i would not want my GF's past suddenly gone. Relationships are only good if based on trust.