Confused Filipina

[Moy]

i hope life is like a computer when we can ask a technician to reformat it and only leaves the important files on it and save it while delete everything that we don't need to keep.

Lynn..as i always told you i exactly know how you feel letting go at times is hard task but if you hang to your past it will kept hunting you for the rest of your life and either it will just make you miserable/grumpy or a better person at the end..just "LET GO"
"Letting go is one of the hardest lessons in life.In life, there's many things that we have to learn to let go. We have to let go of situations, things, memories, people and even ourselves. Letting go of your past and memories are also extremely hard. Even though old memories can be tormenting, yet you might hold on to the past and refuse to move forward. However, by refusing to let go of the painful past, it'll serve as a roadblock to love. ":(
as you said its history a history should be completely destroy while you still have the confidence and strength, dont wait until it will eventually ruin your future relationship because you are still clinging to the said history

"og bisaya ka lynn taga cagayan man ka noh..? sa mga tiguwang nga pagnul-tehon.gaengon" pangutana sa mga katigulangan nga gekan na didtong dalana kay asuyan ka nila og unsa ang naa didto.." that principle will guide your confuse mind lynn i hope..

[ConfusedMe]

History serves as a reminder or a lesson. Make it as stepping stone to become a better person, more stronger and wiser

as you said its history a history should be completely destroy

[Moy]

History serves as a reminder or a lesson. Make it as stepping stone to become a better person, more stronger and wiser

very true and i very much agree confused.COM jokes..

“History informs us of past mistakes from which we can learn without repeating them. It also inspires us and gives confidence and hope bred of victories already won.”

" William Hastie quotes"

[sweetnote143]

letting go at times is hard task but if you hang to your past it will kept hunting you for the rest of your life and either it will just make you miserable/grumpy or a better person at the end..just "LET GO"

tama jud ka, moy! heartaches, pain, problems, stress, etc, are part of our life, but if you let these things get into you they will take you down...these will make you a bitter, grumpy, miserable person for the rest of your life.....my heart has been broken not only once but four times, I manage to pull myself up and live like crazy in love. Though my past made me a little bit cautious but I'm always looking forward to fall in love again though at the right time when I no longer have hang-ups and my heart is healed.

Lyn, stay strong for you and for your kids...I know that you can make it, based on what you've been posting here I know that you're starting to let go. It's hard but you can make it. Life is too beautiful, reach out and live more. even if our heart is breaking, like the song says, 'gotta live like we're dying'.