i admire anyone who can come to a differant country and settle in, well done and just take each day as it comes, its very hard for us too , we think all the time will you be ok and is it safe for you too, but in time all the fears do go away , soon your partner will be jogging with you instead of watching his football i am sure, if not take the fuse out of the plug on the tv then he has no choice, good luck