hi,as some knew that i just arrived here in the uk for just a couple of weeks on a fiancee visa and will be having our wedding on 14th of nov......when i first met my fiancee his 2 kids didnt approved our relationship but after few years they seem to accept it ( i thought)....i arrived in oct.12 here,that time everything seems ok,the daughter (40.yrs.old,single-mom,with 7 yr.old son)is staying with this house too bec.she sold her own house,and bec.my fiancee spent most of the time in philippines 3 years ago he agrees to her to occupy the house while he was away.....i met his son too (37 years.old,2 kids) and as i said they welcome me......then few days ago the daughter stop talking to me and to her dad....and it really made me very uncomfortable,i started going out to have a walk just to pass time quickly and thought to myself i shouldnt be involve with whats going on with them....last night bec.im still in the philippine time we ALWAYS slept at 12 midnight..and she just came without notice in our room and shouting and freaking out.....and for a moment they are shouting and shes really really freaking out....telling my fiancee that he choose ME instead of family.....and theres a lot of words said but all of it,its because of ME over them....i was stunned the way she treated my fiancee,i mean i cant and never will RAISE my voice to either of my parents..i came from a 3rd world country,not rich family but we got a LOT of respect to our parents and to others.....but at the end of the day my fiancee showed me a lot,that he can stand by me,he will fight for me and he loves me very much,and i think thats matters most to me now.....i just shared this thoughts and little disturbance within me here in the forum bec.i cant talk to anybody especially back home,the last thing i want them to do is to worry about me here......thank you for lending ur ears or should i say for reading....