My sister got pregnant with a british and he left her..please help

[johncar54]

My wife used to be a Barangay Health Worker. Part of her work involved supplying free condoms to women and explaining about contraception.

Why oh why don't unmarried females, who are going to have intercourse, use condoms ??? Thus not only protecting against unwanted pregnancy but sexually transmitted decease, which can kill them.

Don't tell me it's because it's a sin in the Catholic Church, so is sex outside marriage.

Having a baby outside marriage has all the potential to put a person, who in a poor situation, in a very much worse situation and reduces the chance of them getting married.

From the country's point of view, an estimated 94 million, rapidly growing, population is far to big and will drag the country into greater poverty. The Government should be promoting sex education despite the wishes of the church. After all, they allow divorce, albeit that they euphemistically call it annulment.

It thought that illegitimate births in the Philippines might be around 50% of all births, but as most birth registrations show two names there is no official record.

From the age of about 14 (a good catholic boy at that time) I always carried a condom in my wallet, even though I did not 'get lucky' until I was 16. I have never had unprotected sex and never fathered a 'surprise baby.'


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[elvie89]

My wife used to be a Barangay Health Worker. Part of her work involved supplying free condoms to women and explaining about contraception.

Why oh why don't unmarried females, who are going to have intercourse, use condoms ??? Thus not only protecting against unwanted pregnancy but sexually transmitted decease, which can kill them.

Don't tell me it's because it's a sin in the Catholic Church, so is sex outside marriage.

Having a baby outside marriage has all the potential to put a person, who in a poor situation, in a very much worse situation and reduces the chance of them getting married.

From the country's point of view, an estimated 94 million, rapidly growing, population is far to big and will drag the country into greater poverty. The Government should be promoting sex education despite the wishes of the church. After all, they allow divorce, albeit that they euphemistically call it annulment.

It thought that illegitimate births in the Philippines might be around 50% of all births, but as most birth registrations show two names there is no official record.

From the age of about 14 (a good catholic boy at that time) I always carried a condom in my wallet, even though I did not 'get lucky' until I was 16. I have never had unprotected sex and never fathered a 'surprise baby.'


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well to be honest she is being serious with that guy.and she thought there relationship will end up into marriage,anyway she havent got pregnant in the first meeting but at the second meeting thats the time she got pregnant.but its not about my sister its about that guy not using condoms.lol well its not what im trying to ask anyway its about what is the right of the baby for her father?

[johncar54]

well to be honest she is being serious with that guy.and she thought there relationship will end up into marriage,anyway she havent got pregnant in the first meeting but at the second meeting thats the time she got pregnant.but its not about my sister its about that guy not using condoms.lol well its not what im trying to ask anyway its about what is the right of the baby for her father?

Sorry Elvie, a woman is the one who is going to get pregnant, so she is the one to make sure, if she is going to sleep with anyone, that she is protected. The guy could easily have had AIDS and she might now have a baby and Aids and be dying. All women must know and understand that.

Don't tell any woman you sympathise with her getting pregnant. She could have said 'NO'

[elvie89]

Sorry Elvie, a woman is the one who is going to get pregnant, so she is the one to make sure, if she is going to sleep with anyone, that she is protected. The guy could easily have had AIDS and she might now have a baby and Aids and be dying. All women must know and understand that.

Don't tell any woman you sympathise with her getting pregnant. She could have said 'NO'

Your are right,anyway im glad she dont have, i sent her into CUMC one of the great hospital here in Cagayan de oro although its bit expensive all the test been done from hepatitus and its been negative thank God.and she been test for hiv as well and its been negative.so its good,That guy got t twins daughter which is both in their four years old,and as far as i know they were all living together with his wife and kids in Cambridge now.