I hope HE has his testicles cut off at some point in the near future.![]()
Hi gwapito I was almost a victim of that Nigerian scam in ebay recently.
I just post the item that night and the next day, I got an email from her with a London based address says can you send me the item I will pay you right away by paypal. I email her back and said I never dispatch item unless your payment is debited into my account. The next day she replied and ask me to send the item to Nigeria!
I reported it right away to ebay and ask them to cancel it.
cheeky scammers.
cheeky scammers do everything just to squeeze money from anyone.
I told ebay about the situation. It is also quite obvious since her account don't even have a single feedback from buyer/seller. There's no doubt she is a bogus buyer.
I wish ebay would give at least a little consideration on your side.
when i startedtalking with my now fiancee she gave me 3 chances if i didnt have web cam she wouldnt talk again she was carefull as it was my cam was broke but i had one buy time we had our 3rd talk you should do same no cam no talk plus she never once ask me for money and i never ask her for money i told her from start i was not after sex on or off web even when i went to see her if this guy had any respect he would not have even ask you to have cyber sex if ever a guy asks again just say no then block him dont let this put you off finding a good man and dont be quick to fall in love it takes time
Good post.
I'm the same with my girlfriend....totally honest and open.
First thing facebook friend, then member on here. Nothing to hide from both sides.![]()
Hi Vische!
Sorry to say, but like the others say, it's a scam for sure. Firstly again like others say, barristers earn very good money, so wouldn't be asking you to pay. Secondly, we have good doctors and hospitals here who would prescribe the medicines for her with only the cost of the prescriptions, so there would be no need to order the medicines from abroad and even then, it would be nowhere near that cost. These days, I can't imagine that he doesn't have any digital photos of his daughter on his PC/laptop, ok, not everyone might not have up-to-date ones, but I'm pretty sure that parents these days will have lot of digital pics of their children since digital cameras can be bought so cheap now. Also if you've been chatting for that long, he should know more about you, your situation and that most people there would not be able to afford that kind of money very easily.
I think like a lot of scammers he's been clever and said various things to make it sound like he's serious about you and that you're close like asking your ring size, coming to see you, and chatting about your dreams etc.
Anyway, I'm glad you joined here and asked us our advice before things got any more serious or you lost any money to him. Please don't do any more cyber-sex with any guy, as some will only be after that-and most will ask at some point, so it doesn't sound so great for the future if they do and he could be asking other girls as well. If he does ask, in a roundabout way or hints, then refuse and say you don't do that (it's maybe a good idea to say to guys when you start chatting that you don't do it, so that lets them know from the start and if that is what they are after, then it will save them wasting your time and they can go after the next girl). If he's still interested and never mentions it again + hasn't tried any kind of scam and you have no doubts/worries, then that should mean he is serious about you, but of course best of all, is if he's never asked in the first place!
You can always ask us for any advice or worries you have in the future about guys who you have met/are chatting with.
Good luck!![]()
sorry to read your story, you got good advise, there is no doubt at all that he is a scammer,
be thankful you found out now and not later , dont have any further contact with him
yeah thanx to you all, i said to myself to face this problem or else nothing gonna change eventhough its really hard to wake up in this reality, i must ... i must face it and correct my mistakes ..... Thank you a lot guys! 皆さん はりがと ございます (Minasan Harigato Gozaimasu)
Guys i'm glad you replied with my dilemma, i'm really suspecting him now cause i even make a story that i'm also sick and brought to the hospital so he said he was worried i didn't reply to his calls then when i said i'm ok now he again ask for some money help for his daughter.
Yes i'm really curious when he say lately that he is a Barrister cause i've checked an average Barrister salary and its huge then about the pics im really upset to him cause i want to see those pics but he wont give me.
This is my first time to chat in my life, gosh and i've been in this .... Badluck i guess.
And im thankful i've seen this forum so i register so i can ask you guys if this is for real ..
The name he gave me is Maxwell Eric Murphy and i've met him in Tagged website
In there he stated he's 37 but in real he said he's 40 born Nov 10, 1970...
The address of his house in London is 43 Honeypot Lane, The Hyde London NW9 9QN near Kingsbury Road
max.erikworld@yahoo.com (ym address)
telephone number he gave me are +447908039438, then he also used this numbers 2258120, 38580229246, +447031743941, +59150244258
He's daughter name is Nikita (i'm curious with this especially when i chat with her 7 year old but with a perfect spelling & grammar)
He introduced himself as a widow with a daughter (wife died on a car accident)
I've also checked him in the Barristers list in London and i never seen his name on the list, but we already have that intimate thing...
And the supplier of medicine he told me is named Ms. Sofea Sabri with this contact details:
+60102854879
Penang Malaysia
Sofeasabri@ymail.com
Maybank Account number: 161257053590
Account type: Savings
Name : Hasnim Binti Mos.
I think they know each other cause when he called me on my phone and i didn't reply the next one who called is that woman.
I really am very sad with this, i thought i already find the guy i'm meant to be cause this year i already said to myself that this is the last year i'm going to wait for the guy i will love.
My parents & family knew about him but not in detail and i'm only worried they might see my nude photo cause i'm still a virgin, i had only 1 boyfriend and my life and then that pricking guy.... I'm really suffering from stress right now but i know i can make it ... Hope God will make them pay for scamming as ladies which is so naive in this...
I also checked some other accounts he has and I found out he is also in Asia Soulmate named himself as Maxon Erik
http://asiasoulmate.com/view.php?l=default&id=00072
in Tagged he is named as Max Eric
http://www.tagged.com/profile.html?uid=5450242249
I've saved all the messages he send to me in yahoo.
Too late i've been used, it really felt bad .... i even make him a video clip for his birthday with messages, then a recorded song he requested. I guess when i talked to him i'm so vulnerable cause i had a problem then and he make me happy that's when i trust him..... From now on i will never trust those .......s ...
Do you know guys if there's some online police/site so i can tell them about him and warn others about him ...?
How can i attached here the picture he's been using?
Time to make a fresh start.
There are some nice genuine single guys on this forum.
Good luck to you.![]()
thanx a lot grahamw48 .....
Wish your right ...
hope you feel better now Vische.
Dont be sad we are all here for you![]()
i feel better cause i talked to you guys, but the feeling that your heart is broken is really hard to keep, i don't want my family to know this cause i don't want them to worry so much for me since im the youngest and the only daughter my parents might get a shocked so as my brothers ..... right now im crying i can't stop it![]()
Don't blame yourself for this, or feel at all ashamed. (though I understand that is so hard for you).
It is only the evilwho did this to you who is to blame.
Do stick around. There are some really nice and supportive members on the forum.
....Time for bed here....goodnight !![]()
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Hasnim Binti Mos
Maybank acc: 1612 5705 3590
same account used in a job scam
http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2096834/+0
to report fraud
http://www.actionfraud.org.uk/report_fraud
joebloggs i know i shouldn't have anything to do with the guy who scammed me and i accidentally found today his facebook account. Today im only searching for ym invisible detector then i've found a site where i tested some email add and 1 of the email i test is max.erikworld@yahoo.com and there it was his FB account appears and he's location is in US but i couldn't check the other details cause its private for friends only.
http://www.imvisible.info/facebookde...=max.erikworld this is where i checked the email ...
Anyway thanx i just want to tell somebody what i've found out today ....![]()
Have a nice day ...
that's the spirit...you'll be fine...and someday the right one will find you
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love makes life worth living
oh nooohhh thats 100% scam!!!![]()
First thing I used to do when chatting to girls on the dating sites was input their YM ID or (preferably) email into facebook, friendster, myspace etc.
Amazing how much you learn, especially as most don't have enough sense to make their facebook only viewable by friends (as mine is).
Also, simply google their email.
You may also find that they are linked already to scammer discussion forums.
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