Help guys, i'm confused with my boyfriend

[Arthur Little]

Hello everyone, i'm a newbie here and i'm reading the different forums here in filipinouk.

Hello ... and here ... where you can rely upon friendly - yet frank, down to earth advice.

I became interested in this forum cause i had a British boyfriend from London.... and i just wanna share some of my dilemmas in our relationship.

Whoa ... ... STOP there! You HAD a British "boyfriend" from London.

I'm in a relationship with a British guy, we've been 5 months now,

... you're NOT ... at least, not any longer ...

he is a Barrister in London and he has a daughter, he's a widow. We've been so intimate and all, we share dreams, enjoy each other and we talk a lot till morning (local time) and we even have a cyber intimate sex if that's what you call it, and i do that for the first time cause he insist that he will be the only one to see me nude. Then days past and we're still sweet to each other then he even ask my ring size and decided he will come here this end of November 2011 but then his daughter got sick and he told me his daughter need some rare herbal medicine which is already out-of-stock in London so he ask me if i can contact the source from Malaysia so i do it. Then when i contacted the supplier i relay to him the result the account # of the supplier and that the cost will be USD4000 all-in-all to be delivered here in my place cause they are visiting me. But then he asked me if i can pay for that i said i don't have any money cause i just quit my job so he says ok. But the other day he again suggested me if i can pay the half of it, i told him again i didn't have that money and i'm sick so it will be impossible, i said if its your daughter's health concern might as well cancel the flight tickets so he can buy the medicine since they don't have a plane and date yet and i can wait for him maybe next month or next year. He even ask why i don't have that kind of money and say i must start saving i was so upset that i told him i just quit my job and invest my money to a business so i don't have a stable profit yet....He even ask if i can borrow to anyone. I'm just wondering why a Barrister can't afford a medicine with the price he said is more cheap than in london, i know the plane tickets cost too much but now i don't know if he is telling the truth or not.... i even ask for her daughters picture but he does not give me he said the cord of the PC has a problem and so on...

... it's highly IMPROBABLE he's a barrister - an unscrupulous basrd, more like! One of many, unfortunately, who carve out a living by preying on unsuspecting, vulnerable young women - otherwise, WHY else would an affluent member of the English legal profession expect someone in your position to even "chip in" with the cost of medication his daughter [purportedly] needs from abroad? What's to hinder him paying for everything himself?

i love him so much but now i'm doubting him if he really love me..... now we're still chatting but there were few sweet words and just answering in a short word ... Am i just a panic woman or is there really something wrong? please can somebody tell me what our situation really is?

... I realise it ISN'T the sort of reply you'd been hoping to receive. But this man is a charlatan! And the sooner you cease all contact - the better!