when i startedtalking with my now fiancee she gave me 3 chances if i didnt have web cam she wouldnt talk again she was carefull as it was my cam was broke but i had one buy time we had our 3rd talk you should do same no cam no talk plus she never once ask me for money and i never ask her for money i told her from start i was not after sex on or off web even when i went to see her if this guy had any respect he would not have even ask you to have cyber sex if ever a guy asks again just say no then block him dont let this put you off finding a good man and dont be quick to fall in love it takes time