Hi Vische
I had meant to post my original post in your other thread
Really to just show it is not always the Filipina being scammed
I do know I was unlucky in the one I fell in love with, it would not put me off trying again
but I have since retired and do not think I could show enough funds to support a visa applacation
Take care,
Mick.
English man are well easy to love...no fuss! Just teach them to eat meat with bones and He'll join you for dinner! BUT they can be very tight with money...
I'm a cruel and heartless bitch but I’m damn good at it!
In life, we will get random results if we have not specified what we want. Identifying and understanding what it is that we need in a relationship, allows us to set clear intentions, and in doing so, moves us closer to realizing our intended desires.
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Hi Vische, Just take your time there are scammers all over the world even in this country. Dont let your heart rule your head. Best of luck..
Im quite ok now, a little bit teary all of a sudden but i can smile now, since i have so many friends who cheer me up my tears are mixed sadness and happiness for i'am so thankful i have great friends and family who support me all the way..... I hope i can find my true prince charming soon ...
Thanx guys
Hello Vische and good luck with your search . Yes we are easy to fall in love with but dont get scammed again , thankfully you have not been taken for a ride financially as well . I would put myself forward as a potential friend but unfortunately I am still going through the ' trying to move on ' stage following the break up with my partner of 10 years and being self critical I would not make anyone a good partner at the moment . I have not been to the Philippines recently but I did years ago and had a few relationships which with the benefit of hindsight probably had more chance of succeeding than the broken one I now have , hence my interest now . One girlfriend scammed me in a way , she had about five other foreign boyfriends on the go at the same time but I was philosophical about it for a while reasoning that if I was really 100% committed she would drop the others but inevitably it fizzled out due to the lack of trust and thats as important as being in love .
Thank you Mr. Peter D. for your insights and for telling me your story. Its really hard when someone you truly love has tricked you and moreover in my part i fall in-love with the guy i didn't know cause the picture is not him, its really funny and really hurt at the same time. That is my first time having a foreigner for a lover and a chatmate cause im not into chatting that's maybe i became an easy target, but since i met him there's this interest in me that i begin to like British guys cause when i searched all about british guys i somewhat love their attitude and being a gentlemen is really a lovable (cause there's few gentlemen this days) and that is also the thing that brought me to doubt that this scammer that im talking to is not a British guy.
Well for now im really thankful i met the guys here in this forum, they are the one that helps me survive the trauma i had, they support me and even help me to file a scam report in some UK website. Maybe if i didn't met this guys i probably be so down today and feel bad for myself, and unable to move on this fast.
Now i can smile again and laugh unlike those days that my eyes is like a faucet hahahaha i can even laugh now to jokes about this scammer... i guess friends and family really helps in moving on, so i think if your still on the verge of moving on, you can count on me as one of your confidante, a friend who will listen to your ideas and whatever comes in your mind that you want to spill it out ... just want to listen ... it helps really ... from my experience ... since that is the 2nd time i fall in-love in my whole life
But its ok to hibernate, it helps me but while hibernating its more easy when you talk to somebody like chatting in this group, they are the one who support me with their kind words and harsh but really an inspirational words ..... And also prayers to God for support.... Hope you will move on too sooner, cause its really nice and its warm in your heart when you smile.
Its much easier to cross the bridge with someone or to carry a big burden with a friend....
What a positive and helpful post, and if I may say so, written in excellent English.
Hi vische. It's good to see the level of advice you 're getting. It's just a matter of time and you'll make it to your promise land. Wish you good luck.
... but I shall just B~R~U~S~H it off!
Ayup sithee...
A Yorkshireman is a Scotsman with all the generosity squeezed out of him.
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'Ear all, see all, say nowt;
Eyt all, sup all, pay nowt;
And if ivver tha does owt fer nowt -
Do it fer thissen.
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