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    Are British guys really easy to fall in-love with? then can you introduce me to one

    Hello i'm a newbie here but i enjoyed reading the forums here even i'm not yet a member then, but now i'am a member and i would like to start a fresh new me cause i've been scammed lately, i thought my boyfriend is a British but then it turns out to be a scam. I've fallen for him and now he broke my heart.

    So to my curiosity i want to know how a British guy loves a Pinay women like me, can someone introduce me to somebody between age 34-48 years old and willing to marry a Filipina.

    I'm still single and no children. Willing to move wherever my other part wants me.

    I just want a guy who will love me as me and respect me as a woman and as his partner....

    Thanx, hope to hear from you guys, you really help me a lot, this may be my start moving on.....


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    Hi Vische.

    Well, I can only speak for myself , and of course yes, I'm a REALLY easy person to fall in love with. lol

    Seriously though, I'm 100% sure there will be 1000s of GENUINE British guys wanting to chat to you and make a relationship with you, but it's like any other relationship, you need to take the time to work out whether there is true emotion and commitment behind the easy to say words.

    Try to judge the man and the relationship exactly the same as you would if you'd met him back home, and also make sure that you both realise that there are obstacles that you will need to overcome (visa requirements and visits to the Phils by him) before you can ever make those daydreams become reality.

    You have already made a great first step by joining this forum, as there are members here who can demonstrate through their own experiences that this kind of relationship really can succeed and bring happiness to both partners.....as long as they have their eyes open and are willing to adapt to the ways of each other's cultures.


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    Goodluck finding your new love.. You know the best thing is do not look for love it will come in unexpected ways. I myself, was heartbroken too.. before I met my wonderful husband. The dude fooled me! I never thought he was MARRIED MAN!( What more, he is married to 3 different girls in the Philippines and he married me too! So don't rush yourself in finding love.. What I did was I move on, Filed annullment since my marriage to him is null and void.


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    I should have added...now that there are social networking sites like Facebook, once you feel you know the person well enough, ask to be a friend on their Facebook.

    That is an entirely reasonable request, and if they are genuine and nothing to hide they will be happy to share their public personality and daily life with you. No secrets !

    You can afford to be choosy, so BE CHOOSY.

    My Filipina girlfiend is on my facebook as 'in relationship' with me (and on this forum), and I'm proud that she is.


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    Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
    Hi Vische.

    Well, I can only speak for myself , and of course yes, I'm a REALLY easy person to fall in love with. lol ...
    ... and MODEST with it!


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    But, of course, Graham's RIGHT ... as too, is Scottish bride - and BOTH speak a lot of sense!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
    Hi Vische.

    Well, I can only speak for myself , and of course yes, I'm a REALLY easy person to fall in love with. lol

    Seriously though, I'm 100% sure there will be 1000s of GENUINE British guys wanting to chat to you and make a relationship with you, but it's like any other relationship, you need to take the time to work out whether there is true emotion and commitment behind the easy to say words.

    Try to judge the man and the relationship exactly the same as you would if you'd met him back home, and also make sure that you both realise that there are obstacles that you will need to overcome (visa requirements and visits to the Phils by him) before you can ever make those daydreams become reality.

    You have already made a great first step by joining this forum, as there are members here who can demonstrate through their own experiences that this kind of relationship really can succeed and bring happiness to both partners.....as long as they have their eyes open and are willing to adapt to the ways of each other's cultures.
    Thanx graham, i know the problems and the long arrangements of papers cause i already consulted that cause i thought he's not a scam hahahaha... so im prepared for a lot of changes even my family... but then i got interested in english or british guys when i do some research with that scam, your culture are quite same to us.... British guys are said to be gentlemen, with moral value and very good man ...


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    Quote Originally Posted by scottishbride View Post
    Goodluck finding your new love.. You know the best thing is do not look for love it will come in unexpected ways. I myself, was heartbroken too.. before I met my wonderful husband. The dude fooled me! I never thought he was MARRIED MAN!( What more, he is married to 3 different girls in the Philippines and he married me too! So don't rush yourself in finding love.. What I did was I move on, Filed annullment since my marriage to him is null and void.
    Wow thanx scottishbride, i guess there's really two face in every place... Thank you i learned my lesson now so im quite careful and i guess your there guys for some advice, you really help me a lot...


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    Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
    I should have added...now that there are social networking sites like Facebook, once you feel you know the person well enough, ask to be a friend on their Facebook.

    That is an entirely reasonable request, and if they are genuine and nothing to hide they will be happy to share their public personality and daily life with you. No secrets !

    You can afford to be choosy, so BE CHOOSY.

    My Filipina girlfiend is on my facebook as 'in relationship' with me (and on this forum), and I'm proud that she is.
    Im so much thankful to you graham48 you really is the man ....


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    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
    ... and MODEST with it!
    nice one


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    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
    But, of course, Graham's RIGHT ... as too, is Scottish bride - and BOTH speak a lot of sense!!
    You too Arthur Little Thanx a lot..... your such an angel ... please always guide us ... Harigato gozaimasuta ....


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    Hello Vische
    You have everything going for you, there are lots of decent British men who would love to be able to meet you, and hopefully go on to form a relationship and marriage.

    I am out of your age range, being far too old, but did fall in love and married a Filipina in 2008.

    But she scammed me in that she only wanted money and a settlement visa to be able to live and work in the UK, she did not want us to be together.
    I loved her as much as it is possible to love, but her feelings for me were very shallow, and I ended up divorcing her.

    All Filipina’s are beautiful woman and I still believe most also want a loving relationship.

    All the best,
    Mick.


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    Viche,

    u might appreciate chatting to my fiancée, she is cuurently in manila leaving for the uk on tuesday as she has got her visa. U will get a mail from her shortly, i hope she can guide u regarding british men
    Malcolm


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    Quote Originally Posted by mickcant View Post
    Hello Vische
    You have everything going for you, there are lots of decent British men who would love to be able to meet you, and hopefully go on to form a relationship and marriage.

    I am out of your age range, being far too old, but did fall in love and married a Filipina in 2008.

    But she scammed me in that she only wanted money and a settlement visa to be able to live and work in the UK, she did not want us to be together.
    I loved her as much as it is possible to love, but her feelings for me were very shallow, and I ended up divorcing her.

    All Filipina’s are beautiful woman and I still believe most also want a loving relationship.

    All the best,
    Mick.
    Oh so sorry Mickcant, recently im also been scammed of my 'london-bf' which is not even a british, i guess you have been also fooled, that recent scammed bf i just love him so much and its my first time in having a relationship in chat but there i was heartbroken, thanx to this forum they helped me decide and support me a lot.... Wish you had met another woman ...


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    Quote Originally Posted by malchard888 View Post
    Viche,

    u might appreciate chatting to my fiancée, she is cuurently in manila leaving for the uk on tuesday as she has got her visa. U will get a mail from her shortly, i hope she can guide u regarding british men
    Malcolm
    Yeah thanx malchard888, thanx for the offer, you guys are the best ... im only 2 days here and there you are welcoming me so much ...


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    is yr e mail working as my fiancée loida has sent u a mail but it doesnt seem to be going through
    malcolm


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    Quote Originally Posted by malchard888 View Post
    is yr e mail working as my fiancée loida has sent u a mail but it doesnt seem to be going through
    malcolm
    yeah its working malchard888 infact all the reply here in this forum is redirected to my email, maybe she's trying the ym, i have a different address there.... anyway thanx so much ..... but can you try sending me an email again, thanx


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    Hello Vische,

    I hope you can really find a guy that will accept and love you for who you are..

    Never give up.. yeah I think British is more responsible/true to their words compared to any other nationalities.. but this is only my opinion because I have an ex who is a French and American but they were just good with their flowering words and left me hanging in the air.

    My British fiancee filled all the love I was longing before with my ex's, he is so true, responsible and gentleman.. I think British are born that way!

    So, never give up and pray God is still writing your own love story for you!
    ADAMGRACE


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    Red face Does any filipino leaving in exeter?

    Hello!
    Everyone i am new here and didn't introduce myself yet,
    i am married to englishman who is originally from bath.
    my husband will work in exeter and we need to move there
    soon, once i get my Visa if God's permit.I am hoping to meet
    fellow filipino's in exeter soon as i get there.but now i am
    leaving far from my husband because i am still here
    in the philippines.Its really nice to be here in forum, because
    you feel not alone and the important thing is that i am learning
    lots.thank's to everyone for sharing all info's.its big help for the
    beginner's like me.and I wish to meet fellow filipino's who will leave
    there in the U.K..


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    Hello!vishe,

    welcome to the forum!its nice that you share your experienced from the past relationship move on dear.and i wish you will find soon the right Guy and like Grace and other says never give up and pray always.cheers!
    and i agree that brittish are super caring,loving,loyal and faithful.they are like us...so we are match with brittish.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Blesslady View Post
    Hello!vishe,

    welcome to the forum!its nice that you share your experienced from the past relationship move on dear.and i wish you will find soon the right Guy and like Grace and other says never give up and pray always.cheers!
    and i agree that brittish are super caring,loving,loyal and faithful.they are like us...so we are match with brittish.
    yes ate.. their LOVE is UNCONDITIONAL second to GOD!
    ADAMGRACE


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    Sory Vische,i have to admit that my first posting was not intended here.sory its quiet
    hard to be newbie.I hope you will understand.i am super shy now and don't know how to delete my first posting.


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    Are British guys really easy to fall in-love with?

    Although I'm a pain in the ar$e, my husband didnt give me a hard time in six years of being together

    So.....yes, british guys are easy to fall in love with but you must learn how to manage their moans and grumpiness
    ''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''


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    Quote Originally Posted by sars_notd_virus View Post
    Are British guys really easy to fall in-love with?

    Although I'm a pain in the ar$e, my husband didnt give me a hard time in six years of being together

    So.....yes, british guys are easy to fall in love with but you must learn how to manage their moans and grumpiness
    you sound like my wife



    here's to long time suffering husbands everywhere

    i wasn't moaning or grumpy b4 i got married , i always tell the misses she made me this way
    http://www.filipinouk.com/forum/image.php?type=sigpic&userid=870&dateline=1270312908


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    Quote Originally Posted by GraceAdam View Post
    Hello Vische,

    I hope you can really find a guy that will accept and love you for who you are..

    Never give up.. yeah I think British is more responsible/true to their words compared to any other nationalities.. but this is only my opinion because I have an ex who is a French and American but they were just good with their flowering words and left me hanging in the air.

    My British fiancee filled all the love I was longing before with my ex's, he is so true, responsible and gentleman.. I think British are born that way!

    So, never give up and pray God is still writing your own love story for you!
    Thanx GraceAdam, i really appreciate that ... thank you ... maraming salamat


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    Quote Originally Posted by Blesslady View Post
    Sory Vische,i have to admit that my first posting was not intended here.sory its quiet
    hard to be newbie.I hope you will understand.i am super shy now and don't know how to delete my first posting.
    Its ok, im also a newbie and in my first post i don't know where it goes hahahaha ...


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    if u search for her on facebook as loida seminiano and contact her that way, she will be happy to give u advice lady to lady, she currently has problems with her e mail annd cant log into this forum currently.
    malcolm


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    Quote Originally Posted by sars_notd_virus View Post
    Are British guys really easy to fall in-love with?

    Although I'm a pain in the ar$e, my husband didnt give me a hard time in six years of being together

    So.....yes, british guys are easy to fall in love with but you must learn how to manage their moans and grumpiness
    Thanx for the notes , im gonna be ready for that


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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    you sound like my wife



    here's to long time suffering husbands everywhere

    i wasn't moaning or grumpy b4 i got married , i always tell the misses she made me this way
    Really? hahahaha


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    Thanks vische..how are you now?xx


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