Originally Posted by
sars_notd_virus
We cannot please everybody, if they dont like you , dont like them back!! ...I also have a daughter and both me and husband is also working , but I never ''oblige'' my mother in law to look after my daughter only in ''some'' circumstances and I make sure I treat her for lunch/dinner out after she looked after my daughter....just remember, we cannot pay ''utang na loob'' !!.. So, for you to have a nice relationship with the family dont give any little hole for them to attack you.
And yes, we do treat them often.. Well, I have come to the point now that I am applying for Flexible hours so no need to depend too much to my Mother in law. So we will see...And I will never allow her sister to ruin the family. She is just a Selfish.. B****!
