Thanks my friendwell I am a level headed chap, I like to think things through, do my research and know whats inolved in all this long distance stuff.
i am taking things slowly and see how we feel after say 5-6 months then decide about a holiday there, meet her parents do some site seeing and scuba diving, and if it doesnt work out, well it was a good experience and I would have had a nice holiday and met a very sweet woman .. nothing ventured nothing gained.