Yep, fall in love....meet the lady in person and then hopefully stay in love.

Take it from there.

They've got to make the old heart race a bit to get you running for that plane and endure the tedious 20 hour journey.

Bear in mind though, I HAVE been scanning the dating sites for about 4 years now, and reckon to have a reasonable understanding of Filipino culture and thought processes, after being backwards and forwards to the place for over 20 years including spells of residence of up to 3 years and having had 12 years of marriage to a Filpina.

Doesn't guarantee success or compatibility, but does mean that the rose-coloured specs went years ago.